@Georgios interesting! Maybe this is a ways of learning thing, because I feel like I'm the exact opposite. I can't retain the how till I've been told the why. First I want to know the theme: who are we, & what are we doing? Then I want to know how we win. Then, & only then, am I read for the mechanics.
@Georgios ok! I may be misunderstanding your meaning. I do agree that players need a clear idea of what they will be physically doing - I suppose I was coming from my experience at Essen where rules explanations often went immediately into 'here are the 5 actions you can take in a turn' before explaining the theme & why those actions mattered. It was very hard to retain without having an organising paradigm 'you are master sculptors trying to create the greatest statues' or whatever.
@TimClare Exactly. I think we're on the same page here. It seems common practice to use theme as that organising paradigm, but I've found it often lacking as soon as the rules become slightly more complex or the theme too obscure for the players.
In those cases physical action seems to me the most reliable foundation to build on.
@Georgios thank you for taking the time to elaborate. Of course I guess different games can prove easier or harder to explain & that's not always linearly correlated to complexity so much as intuitiveness, similarity to previous games & synergy between theme & rules. Like most players can guess a big kraken will be a more formidable combatant than your starting fishing boat without being explicitly told the rules governing that.
@TimClare I think we may be talking about slightly different things here. The "how" or the mechanics are not the first step players need to take.
I am talking about framing the activity of playing the game, by anchoring it in real life actions. While I do think there's merit to your argument that people have different approaches to learning things; in this case I think we're not that far apart.